Thanks to everyone who entered to win a ticket to A Woman Inspired's online conference about organization and creativity. Random.org picked #1, which was Hillary @ The Other Mama!
If you'd still like to check out this online conference, tickets are very reasonable. You can register here!
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Sunday, January 24, 2010
Saturday, January 23, 2010
Random Readings, 1.23.10
You all, I am FRIED. My bad mood just got worse and worse today. My morning started with Annalyn waking up an hour early, then moved quickly into news that a client had blasted me for a small mistake that I’d already apologized for and offered to fix by emailing my bosses about it. And then I ended the evening by backing into a truck when leaving my friends’ house after what had been an otherwise lovely visit.
So. These links are about as random as can be, and I don’t even think I can offer you much explanation. Please just know I’ve been collecting them all week, and for various reasons, I think you need to know about each and every item. Enjoy.
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So. These links are about as random as can be, and I don’t even think I can offer you much explanation. Please just know I’ve been collecting them all week, and for various reasons, I think you need to know about each and every item. Enjoy.
- Shelly began a series about intentional parenting, and I can’t wait to read her insights. She’s a wise lady who is raising teenaged girls, and since I know I’ll be there sooner than I think, I am trying to soak up as much of her knowledge as I can!
- Have I mentioned I love Chuck, the TV show? Yeah, just a few million times. Well, it turns out that the actor who plays Chuck is a Christian. I love that.
- Matthew Paul Turner, an author, blogger and husband of a fellow (in)courage writer, spent the last week in Uganda with World Vision. Read about his journey in Uganda Week.
- Shaun Groves is amazing. The work he does – and the passion with which he does it – for Compassion blows me away. And he’s doing it again, bigger than ever. Stay tuned for more info about the benefit he’s planning for Haiti.
- What do you do when you see homeless people? I always feel weird and end up doing . . . nothing. Jenn has a great solution and detailed instructions: Keep care packages for homeless people in your car, including items like toothbrushes, hand warmers, water bottle and more.
- Did you read the Babysitters Club books back in the day? Apparently, they’ve been out of print for a while, but they’re coming back and there’s a prequel. I might have to read that!
- If you’re a blogger and you’re not reading Savvy Blogging, check it out now. These ladies are offering up honest, realistic and so very relevant advice, and everyone who wants to improve their blog should be reading every word. I know I am.
- And I'm over at (in)courage today, talking about a time (not the only time, believe you me) I got in trouble for rolling my eyes. You don't want to miss this one.
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Friday, January 22, 2010
You don't know how it feels.
I don't think it's a coincidence that today I heard both "You Don't Know How It Feels" by Tom Petty and "But It's Alright" by JJ Jackson (which opens with the line, "You don't know how I feel.").
Because honestly? I don't think anyone knows how I feel right now. My poor mom tried to talk to me tonight and struck out every time she opened her mouth. Because there's not a right answer. There's not a quick fix.
It won't help to tell me to be grateful for my many blessings. It won't help to encourage me to share my feelings honestly. And please, for the love of all pity parties, don't recite Bible verses that I have memorized, too.
Because you don't know how I feel. You don't know how it feels to be me.
(Although I realize you might be picking up on the fact that right now, I'm feeling a tad grumpy.)
I was disappointed today. Big time. I pursued an opportunity, and it didn't work out. I'm not even that upset about the specific opportunity; I'd already figured out that it wasn't the best thing for me. I'm just thoroughly discouraged about my entire life.
That's not really better, is it?
My mom even said, "This isn't the life I wanted for you either."
Ah! She wasn't being mean or critical; she was just acknowledging some of how I feel. I think. I don't even really know how I feel.
I do know that I have a good life. I know God is in control. I know the people of Haiti have it way worse, and I should shut up. I know. But knowing isn't helping. Nothing is helping right now.
By the time this posts, I'll probably feel better. Or maybe not. Maybe it will take a road trip and day of familychaos fun to cheer me up. Maybe the sun will show its face after a thousand years, and that will help.
You know - the sun will come out tomorrow, so don't worry, little Annie? Yeah, maybe that will do the trick.
I don't know. You don't know. And that's where I'm at today.
I think I'll go listen to some more Tom Petty and consider one of life's great questions: Why does this straight-laced, goody-two-shoes girl love druggie music so much?
What kind of music do you listen to when you're feeling discouraged?
(I really wanted to say "feeling bummed out...man..." right there. Mainly because I think I'm funny. Please, don't tell me otherwise. Or at least wait until the sun comes out.)
P.S. I'm linking up to Sarah's carnival at Real Life Blog.
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Because honestly? I don't think anyone knows how I feel right now. My poor mom tried to talk to me tonight and struck out every time she opened her mouth. Because there's not a right answer. There's not a quick fix.
It won't help to tell me to be grateful for my many blessings. It won't help to encourage me to share my feelings honestly. And please, for the love of all pity parties, don't recite Bible verses that I have memorized, too.
Because you don't know how I feel. You don't know how it feels to be me.
(Although I realize you might be picking up on the fact that right now, I'm feeling a tad grumpy.)
I was disappointed today. Big time. I pursued an opportunity, and it didn't work out. I'm not even that upset about the specific opportunity; I'd already figured out that it wasn't the best thing for me. I'm just thoroughly discouraged about my entire life.
That's not really better, is it?
My mom even said, "This isn't the life I wanted for you either."
Ah! She wasn't being mean or critical; she was just acknowledging some of how I feel. I think. I don't even really know how I feel.
I do know that I have a good life. I know God is in control. I know the people of Haiti have it way worse, and I should shut up. I know. But knowing isn't helping. Nothing is helping right now.
By the time this posts, I'll probably feel better. Or maybe not. Maybe it will take a road trip and day of family
You know - the sun will come out tomorrow, so don't worry, little Annie? Yeah, maybe that will do the trick.
I don't know. You don't know. And that's where I'm at today.
I think I'll go listen to some more Tom Petty and consider one of life's great questions: Why does this straight-laced, goody-two-shoes girl love druggie music so much?
What kind of music do you listen to when you're feeling discouraged?
(I really wanted to say "feeling bummed out...man..." right there. Mainly because I think I'm funny. Please, don't tell me otherwise. Or at least wait until the sun comes out.)
P.S. I'm linking up to Sarah's carnival at Real Life Blog.
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Thursday, January 21, 2010
More of the important stuff
One thing this blog is good for is keeping me from doing the dishes after dinner keeping track of what I’ve done over time. Thanks to the excellent record-keeping I’ve done here, I can tell you that last year, I watched 40 movies (including seven holiday movies ranging from saccharine to Splenda).
I’ve thought about it, and I decided that I don’t feel bad about it. I haven’t counted, but I’m sure I read more books than that. And after all, I’m pretty sure somebody out there is relying on my movie reviews. (No? What? Oh, sorry, I can’t hear you, lalala!)
Now that we’re well into 2010 and have settled somewhat comfortably into the year, no longer limping from our brand-new-gotta-do-it-this-time workouts and coming to a tentative agreement that we’ll call it twenty-ten, I’m going to do a little recap of my 2009 viewing accomplishments.
Not the regular movies, because we’ve already gone over that. And not the holiday movies, because I’m serious: I’m talking Lifetime and Hallmark movies here. No need to rehash that. Nope. Today I’m going to tell you about the old movies and TV shows I finally got around to watching.
The ones that everyone else and their little brother who was too young to watch them have seen.
First, the movies:
Matrix: I watched this one over Labor Day with college friends. And I have to say, I still have not gotten over the fact that I hadn’t watched it before. I really liked it! It was weird and complicated, but thankfully, our friends have seen it amillion few times, so they knew how to answer all my questions.
Flashdance: One night when nothing else was on TV, this was. I’m glad I finally saw it, but I can’t say I loved it. I liked it – and the soundtrack, of course – a lot, but Dirty Dancing, Step Up and Save the Last Dance are in no danger of being knocked off the top of my dancing movies list. (Don’t you have a list like that?)
Say Anything: I read an article about 2009 being the 20th anniversary of Say Anything, and I thought about how ridiculous it is that I haven’t watched it. And after I rented it, I have to say: I still think that. How did I miss this movie? It kind of reminded me of my own high school romance, if you can call it that. And I had a brilliant post written about how Mark was just as sweet as Lloyd Dobler, all ready to share with you. Except – it was only written in my head, and it just never made it to paper/screen.
And now, the TV:
Freaks & Geeks: I know I already talked about this one, and I wish I wasn’t too lazy to link to those posts. But regardless of my linking lethargy, I loved this show. Big, huge, redundant thanks to Triple and Chelley for giving me the entire season on DVD. I anticipate another full viewing this summer.
Veronica Mars, season one: Next to my beloved Gilmore Girls, Veronica Mars is one of my all-time shows. But I actually didn’t start watching until the second season. Watching season one (in one fell swoop over a weekend. Yes, I was quite productive, thank you.) just made me love the prematurely canceled show more. I never really understand where Logan was coming from, what happened to Lily or why we cared about Duncan. And now? Now, I get it.
Arrested Development: I’ve made a big mistake. I’m kidding! The only mistake I made was not watching this show sooner. After watching all three seasons (thanks to Hulu and my local library), I can see why fans are still lamenting this show’s treatment by Fox. Dry, dark and sarcastic – this smart show was hilarious!
Buffy, the Vampire Slayer, season one: I read a lot about TV. [Insert mock gasp of surprise here.] And all my favorite critics name Buffy as one of the best shows of the 90s, the century, the whole forever of television history. So over the holidays, when nothing was on except Rudolph and Nick Lachey, I thought I’d see if it was available on Hulu. And it was – for only three more days. I’m sure you know what I did next. Yep, I watched the whole first season (minus a couple episodes in the middle – a girl has to sleep, you know!) in three days. I liked it. But I don’t need to watch the other six seasons. I mean, six seasons! That’s a big commitment for vampires. And, like the last three Twilight books, I just don’t care that much.
Better Off Ted: Ohhh, this is a good one. And a sad one. Because it’s actually still on, at least for a couple more weeks. But from what I hear, ABC is burning off the remaining episodes of season two, and then the show will be kaput. It’s too bad. A dry, dark comedy about the absurdities of the workplace is just my sort of thing. (Obviously, I have a thing for dry and dark. Hm.) I’ve been watching on Hulu, but you might see it pop up over the next few weeks on ABC.
And now to move on: if you’ve been wondering about my spring TV watching schedule, well, you might be weird. But I’ll tell you about it anyway. I have several shows I’m watching live, but I’ve discovered the convenience of watching several others online. And a handful I’ll tape and watch over the weekend with Mark. Here’s the rundown:
So – have you watched any TV shows on DVD? What are you watching this spring?
This post will be linked to Things I Love Thursday. Because, obviously.
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I’ve thought about it, and I decided that I don’t feel bad about it. I haven’t counted, but I’m sure I read more books than that. And after all, I’m pretty sure somebody out there is relying on my movie reviews. (No? What? Oh, sorry, I can’t hear you, lalala!)
Now that we’re well into 2010 and have settled somewhat comfortably into the year, no longer limping from our brand-new-gotta-do-it-this-time workouts and coming to a tentative agreement that we’ll call it twenty-ten, I’m going to do a little recap of my 2009 viewing accomplishments.
Not the regular movies, because we’ve already gone over that. And not the holiday movies, because I’m serious: I’m talking Lifetime and Hallmark movies here. No need to rehash that. Nope. Today I’m going to tell you about the old movies and TV shows I finally got around to watching.
The ones that everyone else and their little brother who was too young to watch them have seen.
First, the movies:
Matrix: I watched this one over Labor Day with college friends. And I have to say, I still have not gotten over the fact that I hadn’t watched it before. I really liked it! It was weird and complicated, but thankfully, our friends have seen it a
Flashdance: One night when nothing else was on TV, this was. I’m glad I finally saw it, but I can’t say I loved it. I liked it – and the soundtrack, of course – a lot, but Dirty Dancing, Step Up and Save the Last Dance are in no danger of being knocked off the top of my dancing movies list. (Don’t you have a list like that?)
Say Anything: I read an article about 2009 being the 20th anniversary of Say Anything, and I thought about how ridiculous it is that I haven’t watched it. And after I rented it, I have to say: I still think that. How did I miss this movie? It kind of reminded me of my own high school romance, if you can call it that. And I had a brilliant post written about how Mark was just as sweet as Lloyd Dobler, all ready to share with you. Except – it was only written in my head, and it just never made it to paper/screen.
And now, the TV:
Freaks & Geeks: I know I already talked about this one, and I wish I wasn’t too lazy to link to those posts. But regardless of my linking lethargy, I loved this show. Big, huge, redundant thanks to Triple and Chelley for giving me the entire season on DVD. I anticipate another full viewing this summer.
Veronica Mars, season one: Next to my beloved Gilmore Girls, Veronica Mars is one of my all-time shows. But I actually didn’t start watching until the second season. Watching season one (in one fell swoop over a weekend. Yes, I was quite productive, thank you.) just made me love the prematurely canceled show more. I never really understand where Logan was coming from, what happened to Lily or why we cared about Duncan. And now? Now, I get it.
Arrested Development: I’ve made a big mistake. I’m kidding! The only mistake I made was not watching this show sooner. After watching all three seasons (thanks to Hulu and my local library), I can see why fans are still lamenting this show’s treatment by Fox. Dry, dark and sarcastic – this smart show was hilarious!
Buffy, the Vampire Slayer, season one: I read a lot about TV. [Insert mock gasp of surprise here.] And all my favorite critics name Buffy as one of the best shows of the 90s, the century, the whole forever of television history. So over the holidays, when nothing was on except Rudolph and Nick Lachey, I thought I’d see if it was available on Hulu. And it was – for only three more days. I’m sure you know what I did next. Yep, I watched the whole first season (minus a couple episodes in the middle – a girl has to sleep, you know!) in three days. I liked it. But I don’t need to watch the other six seasons. I mean, six seasons! That’s a big commitment for vampires. And, like the last three Twilight books, I just don’t care that much.
Better Off Ted: Ohhh, this is a good one. And a sad one. Because it’s actually still on, at least for a couple more weeks. But from what I hear, ABC is burning off the remaining episodes of season two, and then the show will be kaput. It’s too bad. A dry, dark comedy about the absurdities of the workplace is just my sort of thing. (Obviously, I have a thing for dry and dark. Hm.) I’ve been watching on Hulu, but you might see it pop up over the next few weeks on ABC.
And now to move on: if you’ve been wondering about my spring TV watching schedule, well, you might be weird. But I’ll tell you about it anyway. I have several shows I’m watching live, but I’ve discovered the convenience of watching several others online. And a handful I’ll tape and watch over the weekend with Mark. Here’s the rundown:
- Watching live: Chuck, Life Unexpected, Castle, NCIS, The Good Wife, Glee (when it comes back on), and Bones (taped, but still watching it that night).
- Watching online: How I Met Your Mother, Modern Family, Community, The Office and 30 Rock.
- Watching over the weekend: Chuck (yes, again), White Collar, Psych and Burn Notice.
- Show I want to watch but have no idea when: Parenthood.
- Show I'm watching on DVD: Firefly.
- Casualties of having a life and trying not to let it be ruled by TV, despite this ridiculous post: Big Bang Theory and Grey’s Anatomy. And possibly American Idol.
So – have you watched any TV shows on DVD? What are you watching this spring?
This post will be linked to Things I Love Thursday. Because, obviously.
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Wednesday, January 20, 2010
Giveaway: A Woman Inspired Conference
- My laundry has multiplied, migrated and is taking over my bedroom floor. That’s the door I shut when anyone comes over to visit.
- Last night I had to boil pasta in the microwave because all my big pots were dirty, and I couldn’t put dinner off for the hour it would take to get them clean.
- I have a big Rubbermaid box full of photos, some in plastic bags, some in envelopes and some just stacked precariously. None of them organized into any sort of system.
- Two days ago, I finally mailed my last Christmas card.
Maybe I’m the only one. But I suspect a few of you might know exactly what I’m talking about. And in that case, A Woman Inspired’s next online conference is for you. And me. For us, really.
A Woman Inspired – Nurturing Creativity & Efficient Living will take place January 25-29, featuring speakers such as Laura of OrgJunkie, Sandy Coughlin of Reluctant Entertainer, Meredith of Like Merchant Ships, Jennifer Schmidt of Beauty and Bedlam, Tanna Clark of Organizing Solutions and Erin Chase of $5 Dinners.com.
Without leaving the comfort of your home (or, you know, paying for a flight and hotel), you will learn how to:
- develop your God-given talents and gifts
- push past creative blocks
- further your education in the area of your choice (at no cost)
- be more productive
- be more focused
- let your light shine!
If this sounds like something you’d be interested in, I’ve got some good news for you. I’m giving away a free ticket!
All you need to do for a chance to win is leave a comment, telling us one way this conference could help you. Random.org will choose a winner on Friday, and I'll notify the winner by Saturday. For more information about A Woman Inspired, visit the conference website.
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Tuesday, January 19, 2010
Tea party time
Last Sunday, we skipped church. And we stayed in our pajamas all day long. I could say that I regret it, especially in case my choir director reads this. But you know what? After three weeks of Christmas chaos, we needed a day to just BE.
We spent the entire day playing tea party and kitchen with Annalyn. It took hours for the plastic steak to turn into a hamburger that turned into a jelly sandwich, but we were up for the challenge. And that steak/hamburger/sandwich needed lots more sauce, and we practiced stacking up beans and corn and chicken legs.
It was important. And I'm glad we didn't miss it. Even for church. For more small, important moments, visit Chatting at the Sky for Tuesdays Unwrapped.
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Monday, January 18, 2010
I just can't get enough.
When I was in high school, I had six really close girlfriends. Looking back, it's too bad we didn't have a name, like the Pink Ladies or something. But we weren't a club or a clique; we were just a group of friends.
Since graduation, we've only been together - all of us - a few times. But about once a year, a few of us usually manage to make a date and stick to it. (We make more plans than that, but somehow those plans don't always work out.) It never fails that we laugh until our eyes water and our heads hurt, and we leave the night promising to do it more often.
I hope we stick to our promise this time.
On Saturday night four of us met for a drink. Then Smitty hit us with what would turn out to be great news: one of her co-workers is in an 80s cover band, and they were playing at a bar downtown. She wanted to know if we thought it would be fun to go see their show.
I'd like to say we all jumped on the idea immediately. Because we're wild and crazy and fun and spontaneous like that. That's what I'd like to say.
But honestly, we had to debate the many pros and cons pretty thoroughly before deciding that three of us would venture downtown to the Young & Pretty District, where parking isn't free and sensible shoes are scarce.
[For the record, I was actually the one in our group wearing cute shoes this time. I'm not saying you need to mark that on any calendar, but I probably should.]
After more debate - take our purses in or not, wear our coats or not, try the cider beer or not, get a table or sit at the bar - we finally settled in (at the bar) just in time for the show.
And oh, what a show it was!
We laughed so very hard! I seriously had a headache the next morning - not from the half a cider beer I choked down because Smitty was kind enough to buy it, but because I laughed that hard!
The band was good. And they played fun songs - Bon Jovi, Paula Abdul, Rick Springfield, whoever sings Play That Funky Music. But their costumes? And the dancing? And the people watching? And the engaged guy who had the nerve to ask Mindy to dance? And the lead singer who thought I would be a good sport when he grabbed my scarf and tried to make me dance?
Oh, my. It was a good time. I've laughed recently, I have. But not that hard and not that long. I seriously laughed for almost two hours straight. Smitty laughed so hard (at me and the lead singer/scarf incident) that she fell off her chair!
Old (longevity, not age, of course) friends are so fun: those women who know the real me and love me anyway, the girls who grew up beside me in our small town, the people who can always make me laugh.
Who are the people who can always make you laugh?
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Since graduation, we've only been together - all of us - a few times. But about once a year, a few of us usually manage to make a date and stick to it. (We make more plans than that, but somehow those plans don't always work out.) It never fails that we laugh until our eyes water and our heads hurt, and we leave the night promising to do it more often.
I hope we stick to our promise this time.
On Saturday night four of us met for a drink. Then Smitty hit us with what would turn out to be great news: one of her co-workers is in an 80s cover band, and they were playing at a bar downtown. She wanted to know if we thought it would be fun to go see their show.
I'd like to say we all jumped on the idea immediately. Because we're wild and crazy and fun and spontaneous like that. That's what I'd like to say.
But honestly, we had to debate the many pros and cons pretty thoroughly before deciding that three of us would venture downtown to the Young & Pretty District, where parking isn't free and sensible shoes are scarce.
[For the record, I was actually the one in our group wearing cute shoes this time. I'm not saying you need to mark that on any calendar, but I probably should.]
After more debate - take our purses in or not, wear our coats or not, try the cider beer or not, get a table or sit at the bar - we finally settled in (at the bar) just in time for the show.
And oh, what a show it was!
We laughed so very hard! I seriously had a headache the next morning - not from the half a cider beer I choked down because Smitty was kind enough to buy it, but because I laughed that hard!
The band was good. And they played fun songs - Bon Jovi, Paula Abdul, Rick Springfield, whoever sings Play That Funky Music. But their costumes? And the dancing? And the people watching? And the engaged guy who had the nerve to ask Mindy to dance? And the lead singer who thought I would be a good sport when he grabbed my scarf and tried to make me dance?
Oh, my. It was a good time. I've laughed recently, I have. But not that hard and not that long. I seriously laughed for almost two hours straight. Smitty laughed so hard (at me and the lead singer/scarf incident) that she fell off her chair!
Old (longevity, not age, of course) friends are so fun: those women who know the real me and love me anyway, the girls who grew up beside me in our small town, the people who can always make me laugh.
Who are the people who can always make you laugh?
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Thursday, January 14, 2010
Haiti: Everyone Can Do Something
Updated to say: Thank you so much to everyone who donated! Thanks to your participation, Giving Up on Perfect donated $15.00 this weekend. (I rounded up from $9.25 - numbers aren't my thing, remember?!)
I had a great post scheduled for today (Friday). See, it's National Delurking Week, so earlier this week, several bloggers asked their readers to step out from behind the computer screen and make a comment already. Just to say "hi." Just to say "I'm here."
I'm going to wait on that because I was asked (along with lots of other folks) to write about the work Compassion is doing in Haiti. So, come back next week for a fun, clever post. But please stay today for an important one.
Here's the thing: I just can't wrap my mind around what has happened in Haiti. My heart can't fathom the pain that thousands are facing. Even after seeing the pictures, I can't fathom the destruction and damage. I don't know how to process any of it.
What I do know is that Compassion International has reacted immediately to this crisis. They were on the front lines of Haiti's severe poverty before the earthquake, and they will serve in Haiti long after many of us have forgotten this tragedy.
I also know that according to CNN, the FBI is warning of several Haiti charity scams that have popped up in the wake of this earthquake. They are suggesting that donations only be made to organizations monitored and rated by CharityNavigator.org and The American Institute of Philanthropy. Both organizations have given Compassion International their highest approval ranking. Compassion International is the only non-profit in its category to receive eight consecutive years of four-star rating from CharityNavigator.org.
So, with all that in mind, I believe it's safe to say that if you can help Haiti financially, your money will be well spent at Compassion.
Here's how to give: Text "disaster" to 90999 to donate $10, or donate online. Just $35 can help provide a relief pack filled with enough food and water to sustain a family for one week.
I've seen a couple bloggers pledge to donate a certain amount of money per comment they get on their post about Haiti. That's certainly one way to celebrate Delurking Week!
Earlier today, I donated to Compassion, And while I can't pledge to donate hundreds more, I will donate a quarter for every comment to this post.
I know it's not a lot. Maybe you can't give a lot either. But together, I believe God will use our gifts (and our prayers!) to make a difference. So, please, leave a comment and tell me how you've decided to help Haiti.
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How to get ready for Blissdom (part two)
Yesterday we talked about several ways to prepare for Blissdom. This annual women’s blogging conference shouldn’t be intimidating, but as I know from last year, it can be just that if you’re not prepared.
Don’t worry! I’m here to save you from your unprepared self. After all, I don’t want any of you to arrive in Nashville all nervous and excited, only to end up so overwhelmed and scared that you retreat to your hotel room, spending prime networking time on IM with your real-life blogging friend at home.
Not that I know anyone who did such a thing.
The first five tips for preparing for Blissdom were register (duh!), print business cards, get connected through social networks, find out who’s going and make a friend. Because I’m sure you followed my instructions immediately after reading them and are now signed up, printed, connected and hooked up with at least one new conference buddy, it’s time for five more tips.
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Don’t worry! I’m here to save you from your unprepared self. After all, I don’t want any of you to arrive in Nashville all nervous and excited, only to end up so overwhelmed and scared that you retreat to your hotel room, spending prime networking time on IM with your real-life blogging friend at home.
Not that I know anyone who did such a thing.
The first five tips for preparing for Blissdom were register (duh!), print business cards, get connected through social networks, find out who’s going and make a friend. Because I’m sure you followed my instructions immediately after reading them and are now signed up, printed, connected and hooked up with at least one new conference buddy, it’s time for five more tips.
- Do your homework. This little idea of mine to offer tips for attending Blissdom? Turns out it’s not the most original thing on the planet. Not that I’m copying anyone, but the fact is, we’ve all fretted a little bit (or a lot bit) before a big event like this. And that means most of know that any and all advice, insight, suggestions and tips are more than welcome. So, Google it up, girls. (Or, if you like to earn money for your research, Swagbucks it up.) I’m including the posts I know about, but believe me, there are more. If you’ve already found them, please leave a link in the comments!
- What Should You Wear to Blissdom – This is the post that introduced me to Jenny last year, and I found it immensely helpful when shopping/packing.
- Blisstastic – To get ready for Blissdom, OhAmanda is featuring several top bloggers in a weekly feature. So far, we’ve gotten tips from the amazing ladies at Musings of a Housewife and Boston Mamas.
- Advice for Making the Most of Blissdom – And speaking of Jo-Lynne, she wrote a great piece on her own blog about getting the most out of Blissdom.
- Conferences Put the “Social” in Social Media – It’s true. Going to a conference can transform these squishy, can’t-quite-see-your-face online relationships into solid, hug-your-neck-and-miss-you-when-I-go-home friendships. Sarah at Real Life Blog writes about the social benefit to social media meetings.
- 8 Things You Should Know Before Blissdom: Great tips from Darcy at Life with My Three Boybarians, including how to win friends and influence people with a power strip. Seriously.
- Dos and Don’ts for Surviving Blissdom – Edie keeps it simple and includes advice that includes not letting your inner seventh-grader take over.
- Map out your strategy. So you registered, booked your ticket and reserved your hotel room. All set, right? Not quite. When I arrived at Blissdom last year, I was surprised to learn I had to choose between two tracks. This year I’ll have even more choices, but I’m going in prepared. You should, too. Choose the classes you want to attend with the agenda, and keep your eyes and ears open for events going on during the weekend.
- Shop (and pack) early. I’m not here to tell you what to buy or pack. I’m just here to tell you to start early. Do your research and find out what the seasoned bloggers suggest you bring. You may not be as list-y as me, but I highly suggest making a packing list. And remember, if you must buy something, keep the receipt. One luxury of planning and shopping early is the ability to change your mind. More than once.
- Prettify yourself. Don’t get me wrong; Blissdom is not the prom. (Also known, at my house, as the day my mom
gave me hooker eyesdecided I should experiment with eyeliner. Yes, it was traumatic, thank you for asking.) But while your fellow bloggers won’t be impressed by yourpainfulpointy shoes andexpensivetrendy haircut, you will feel better if you put your best (comfortable) foot forward. I don’t know exactly what that means for you, but for me, it means Crest Whitestrips, Jergens Natural Glow and a Great Clips trim (with a coupon, even!).
- Sleep. Last but not least: get yourself some shut-eye. Do not under any circumstance stay up late the night before you head to Nashville. After all, you don’t want to be spaced out and droopy at the cocktail party, do you? No. Go to bed and get your eight hours so you can be your most clever and charming self. (At least on the first day. I won’t even pretend like you’re not going to bed early during the conference. Not when my roommates and I are already giggling about our weekend-long slumber party!)
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Helping Haiti
Before we jump in to conference talk, I want to share some information I’ve found over the last day or so about relief efforts in Haiti. Here are several ways to help the thousands devastated by Tuesday’s earthquake:
- Global Orphan Project – I know these folks personally, and I know the huge heart they have for Haiti. Every penny donated goes directly to relief efforts; nothing goes toward administrative costs.
- Samaritan’s Purse – Just hours after the earthquake hit, this organization had a relief team on its way.
- Compassion International – A gift of $35 will help one family receive emergency supplies of food and clean water for about one week.
- World Vision – Your gift will help distribute life-saving relief supplies, including food, clean water, blankets and tents.
Updated to add: Leslie Ruth over at Diary of a Southern Drama Queen has four more ways to help Haiti. Two of them involve only leaving comments on blogs.
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